Do not keep these items belonging to a deceased person

6. Items That Belong to Others

Sometimes, belongings may include items that legally or ethically belong to someone else—family heirlooms, borrowed items, or objects with unclear ownership. Returning these promptly avoids potential conflicts.

How to Decide What to Keep

Ask yourself: Does this item bring comfort or distress?

Consult family or estate planners: Some possessions may need legal clearance before disposal.

Consider alternatives: Donate items, create memory boxes, or take photos to preserve the memory without keeping the physical object.

Conclusion

Sorting through a loved one’s possessions is never easy, but knowing which items not to keep can make the process safer, more respectful, and emotionally healthier. Prioritizing safety, legality, and emotional wellbeing ensures that the act of letting go honors the person’s memory rather than complicates your grief.